If you are single, [not dating, married, or engaged] what are the attributes that you look for in a partner? If you’re life were a “Build A Mate” factory, how would you comprise your dream person?
If you’d like, be so specific as to list “must haves” and “maybes”.
Now, if you are in a committed relationship and faithful to your partner, [no matter its level of intensity, and have not cheated on that person] what are the attributes that you were looking for and found, AND what desired attributes did you sacrifice?
Last question, if you are in a commited relationship and have NOT remained faithful, what attributes do you look for in a fling that your partner doesn’t have and why don’t you just end the relationship?
Depending on your answers to these questions, I would recommend that some of you remain anonymous. However, if you feel the need to remain anonymous then maybe you should fix something!