Are We Trying To Mask It With Love?

Faith – Hope – Love & the greatest is love

There aren’t many people I’ve met who would disagree that the greatest asset we have is our love for one another, and yet, we are actually destroying ourselves with ease.

As a man who has made a very conscious decision to live in relationship, with who I believe to be the creator, my ideals of love have specific meaning.


Our history provides many proverbs regarding the outcome of our actions, one in particular provides imagery around the bearing of fruit. Every interaction leaves a little something behind, like branches & vines that leave fruit. This imagery has many implications which allegorically connect to us as humans, such as: the soil, the roots, the strength of the tree/vine, the impact of the weather, & ultimately the quality of the fruit that is produced.

& the greatest is love.
The fruit that true love produces cannot be replicated. It is impossible to make a rotten fruit taste as enjoyable as a perfectly healthy & ripe fruit… The allegory continues.

The point is this: we are unable to operate in judgment, condemnation, pretension, selfishness or self-righteousness & put a mask of love over it. It’s like placing the skin of a healthy apple over top of an apple that is rotten to the core & expecting the person to continue to be fooled upon taking a bite of the apple. We do a great job at masking, but the truth always lies beneath the surface & every once in a while the skin & the core align producing ridiculously good fruit.

Caveat: Correction.
I am able to rightfully to correct & even discipline my child in love, because I care about their long term existence as an adult in the world. This is my child. I don’t correct or discipline my wife the same way I do my children… & I love my wife more than I do my children. However, Jenna & I are able to bring things to another in away that might be hard to hear & harder to correct in a single instance, but we have grace for one another because we are both in pursuit of being the best version of ourselves. Correction & discipline are unable to be done in love without an intimate, personal relationship as the foundation at which you’re operating, primarily because you can’t have enough context to do either without the element of relationship.

Love is not a word.
Love is not a mask.
Love is not an idea.
Love is not an intention.
Love is actually the greatest gift we’re able to give & receive, cherish it.


Get It While You’re Young!

When I was 22 years old, my dad, who was still a struggling heroin addict at the age of 50, said these words to me, “The man you are today is the same man you’ll be when you’re 50… unless you do something about it”.

My ol’ man didn’t have many moments of vulnerability, but with tears in his eyes he told his bone-head, arrogant son, that he regretted not putting in the work early and at some level it was too late to start.

Dennis Alan Gable Sr. died at 55 from a stroke because his body couldn’t sustain any attempt to surgically revive him.

When my dad had this conversation with me, all things considered of course, I was a self-righteous prick who was accustomed to hiding my sin behind the fingers I was pointing. In that one very particular moment in time, my name-sake saw something in me that I didn’t have the perspective or foresight to see at that time. The thing he was able to see that so many others weren’t was the mask[s] I wore in order to cover up the insecurities & fears I carried with me into my interactions & relationships.

There are many things we’re told to get while we’re young: As much sex as possible, a hall pass to party any day of the week, & as much money as you can fill your piggy bank with… just to name a few. It is unfortunate that we’re not being encouraged to pursue intentionality, vulnerability, self control, and integrity while we’re young. The truth is, it is insanely hard to work towards those traits the older we get, while sex, money & partying are always an easy default to settle in.

Some say age is just a number, and if that’s the notion that we’re going to operate from, then each and every one of us has an opportunity to get it while we’re young!

Let’s get it! Together, bonded in the pursuit of self-preservation & self-love, may we commit to bettering ourselves, so that we can assist as those around us want to join in on the fun.

Remember these words, “The [wo]man you are today is the same [wo]man you’ll be when you’re 50… unless you do something about it” – Dennis Sr.


Gray Matter & Mystery

Wouldn’t it be nice if every topic, every issue, ever principle of faith had a definite black or white answer? Unfortunately we operate within a great deal of gray matter & mystery, not just in our faith but our whole lives. Maybe it is ok that we respond with, “I don’t know” when we’re faced with gray matter, rather than trying to force the gray to be black or white.

If you have any questions or thoughts, please feel free to email me at
“for the good of man, to the glory of God”

Click on the player to listen!

Podcast, 13 Minute Theology

Are You Ready For Grace?

Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. For you will be treated as you treat others.
The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged.

“And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own?
How can you think of saying to your friend, ‘Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,’
when you can’t see past the log in your own eye?
 Hypocrite! First get rid of the log in your own eye;
then you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend’s eye.
Matthew 7:1-5

Have you ever met a “new convert” to Christianity? Or, can you remember back to when you first came into the family? If you were anything like me, you had some people on the outside continually telling you about all of the crap you were doing wrong, and using Heaven to filter out the judgment. My first few years as a Christian I was a complete douche to people I loved, people I knew, and people who I didn’t know personally. I made it my business to watch from a distance and lash out with something that probably felt like a smack to the back of the head. The lens I wore to read the bible made all of the “DO NOT’S” become 3D and basically jump off of the page at me. But, I wasn’t reading the bible to find out more about my wicked heart so I could learn how to die to myself and be more like Jesus, I was reading it so I had ammo to save people who were dirty, rebellious sinners and I needed to help them see their sinful ways.

I met religion and became a follower of church at 18 years old, and it’s possible that through all of the “good” I did during that time, that I didn’t actually become a Follower of the Way until I was 28 years old. Ten Years Later I connected with Jesus in a really personal way, full of intimacy with Holy Spirit and I took a long-ass-bath in the pool of grace that has changed the lens I wear to see humanity.

When I journey through my past, I realize that I continually rejected intimacy w/ Holy Spirit because it scared me… That relationship takes religion out of the equation and makes you be accountable to conviction, without the measure of “good & bad or right & wrong”. It became apparent to me that I wasn’t only in denial that I had a log in my eye, but for years I learned how to see past it and just continue to push my opinion, judgment, & scale of right & wrong on those who I interacted with. It is the truth of a calloused heart.

As my relationship with God has evolved and my heart has grown softer it is clear to me that Jesus has always cared more about bringing life than being right. That one sabbath day healing tells the story beautifully – While in the synagogue a man with a crippled arm interacted with Jesus, and a church leader of the day asked, “You’re not going to heal him on the sabbath are you? And Jesus replied, “Is it lawful to bring life or death on the sabbath?” as usual, the religious man could only stand and stare as he looked logic in the face and watched as Jesus healed this man on a day when the “right” thing to do would have been to pass the man by.

Our call and duty as Followers of the Way is to make disciples – To lead people in the footsteps of the Good Shepherd. This is often confused with making converts, which is very specifically not what we are called to spend our lives doing. We end up herding people into buildings, meetings & clubs with a pencil and notepad ready to tally every hand raised during the alter call – Instead of inviting humans to travel along side us in transformation, freedom, and grace. Humans who are so content in the spirit that it makes way more sense to walk up to someone, like Jesus did, and say, “Hey, I see a potential in you that you may not see yet, I can show you the source of your potential if you’ll follow me [to the empty tomb of Jesus].

As with most things I’ve written about, I have failed at this time and time again – but this journey really started when I was camping in Colorado with my grandfather, and during some down time between fishing and riding quads I was able to finish Ragamuffin Gospel by Brennan Manning. God used Manning’s story to break me and start the painful process of pulling the log out of my eye. It won’t bring ultimate truth, or black and white answers, but I would encourage every Christian to read this book to gain some perspective. Perspective is healthy because it demands a view from the other side…I’m passionate about this very subject because Jesus tells us this [in John 13] “The world will know you are My disciples by your love for one another”, and after hundreds/thousands of years of scholarly & pastoral input we’ve only drawn more dividing lines among ourselves, which tells me we can’t be doing a very good job of showing the world what a disciple [of Jesus] actually looks like.

I’ll leave you with this quote from Ragamuffin Gospel:Ragamuffin Gospel
The Word we study has to be the Word we pray. My personal experience of the relentless tenderness of God came not from exegetes, theologians, and spiritual writers, but from sitting still in the presence of the living Word and beseeching Him to help me understand with my head and heart His written Word. Sheer scholarship alone cannot reveal to use the gospel of grace. We must never allow the authority of books, institutions, or leaders to replace the authority of knowing Jesus Christ personally and directly.